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Every Family Forward, a new project of the Robert Wood Johnson Foundation (RWJF), elevates the experiences of families and caregivers and children. Part of this work involved partnering with IDEO.org to launch the Care Constellation – an initiative that “funds and supports families, care providers and mobilizers who are leading a quiet revolution in child care.”
On July 15, three child care mobilizers who responded to the Care Coalition Open Call shared their visions in a Zoom conversation. Here are our takeaways.
Chi Offomah, Care Constellation program lead at IDEO.org, led off, describing the work of “centering kids, families and communities in tough circumstances.” She said the conversation would highlight “cultural beliefs and rituals that get in the way of the world we want to live in.”
In her remarks, Krista Scott, senior program officer at RWJF, said reimagining child care entails working to ensure care systems support the wide variety of shapes families take; changing our current systems—and creating new ones—to incorporate family and kid voices and to respond to care worker needs; and using community organizing and coalition building to shift power and build capacity.
1. “Caregivers are selfless people who give give give,” said Julia Arroyo of Young Women’s Freedom Center, who recalled her own experience in the foster system and the juvenile detention system. “When I think of the word caregiver,” she said, “I think it has to include the first person who holds you in their belly.” Mothers without a secure social network, she said, often fear the idea of letting someone care for their children. The question, she said, is “How can I trust so that I can rest?” In response, her organization focuses on building agency and self-determination through
Holding celebrations called “I Got You Days” to mark transitions
Hiring young women from the population they serve, “so people can see reflections of themselves”
2. “Be more vulnerable with the community you have,” advised zahra alabanza of Atlanta’s GoldenSeed Collective. She described being “thrown into caregiving at an unexpected time,” having “inherited” two children. In her case, kinship care developed out of pure necessity. The collective model, which demands accountability, allows everyone to feels seen and appreciated.
Kinship groups like GoldenSeed, which go beyond the heteronormative, patriarchal model of the nuclear family, ensure that parents can thrive, too. Recalling that when she was growing up in the 1980s, “Strangers were part of the care constellation.” She described this practice as “a remembering of what family and tribe have always been,” even going back to ancestral practices. “It’s like a holiday gathering every time we get together,” she smiled.
Parting words from Zahra Alabanza of GoldenSeed, "Give money to the people who are already doing the work so that they can continue to do the work."#CareConstellation 👧🏾
3. “Our work is foundational to society,” asserted Courtney Helstein of Family Forward Oregon. Long before the pandemic, she said, caregivers felt isolated. This isolation is intentionally built into a harmful system, she explained. There is a myth that we’re all on our own, and this myth underpins such policies as means-tested, temporary support for women. It privileges center-based care and a cultural framework formed by and favoring the dominant white culture. And it points society to the question: “Does this family deserve support?” Of course they do, insisted Helstein. The question wouldn’t exist if the myth were dismantled.
Part of FFO’s work involves creating a space where mothers and caregivers show up as their whole selves. “We’re not transactional,” she said. “We’re not using moms. We listen, we ask, ‘What do you need?’”
Early Learning Nation columnist Mark Swartz writes for and about nonprofit organizations. Author of the children's books Werner Herzog Eats His Shoe, Lost Flamingo, Magpie Bridge and The Giant of the Flood as well as a few novels, he lives in Takoma Park, MD, with his wife and two children.